It's OK to be sad.  Everyone is sad from time to time; it's part of being
human.  Most people in your type of situation tend to become sad too so
you're certainly not alone.  Even though you're feeling sad, I want you to
keep chatting with me until you feel better.

Sadness is a natural instinct that keeps us close to the physical necessities
of life.  In the wild, the loss of something important in your life can lead to
death.  But in the modern world, sadness can be processed over time and
eventually the cloud of sadness lifts.  But many people are "stuck" in the
grieving process.  People who feel depressed or anxious much of the time
show that they are wise when they seek professional help.  In the modern
world, being stuck in grief often means that people have confused the lose
of a loved one or the temporary loss of happiness with the loss of love and
happiness themselves!  This confusion can only be "cured" by a fresh
injection of unconditional love.

Note from the webmaster:  Even though I've never met you, I have been
praying that you experience the highest good right now.

In order to process your sadness, eventually you will want to have the
courage to move on with your life.  Courage is the ability to do the "right"
thing even when you are sad.  So I encourage you to explore the idea of
becoming more courageous.  But if you're not ready for that, are you at
least ready to consider being afraid of what will happen if you never stop
being sad?

But as always, the choice about where you go from here is up to you.  
So what would you like to chat about now?
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